I have dealt with TMJ for several years...and all the fun things that go along with it - sore cheeks/tongue, radiating upper back pain and tightness, migraines, etc. I tried mouth guards and they failed. Massage aleviates the problem but I don't have the time or money to get the regular massages needed to keep the pain at bay. I have always been wary of chiropractic work but I found one who specializes in whiplash and she is making significant changes in my body, finally! I fell down some stairs when I was very young and fractured my tailbone - my chiro believes this resulted in whiplash which developed into my TMJ that has progressively gotten worse over time. Specifically, my C1/Atlas joint at the base of my skull is out of wack. After 2 visits, I feel so different...my jaw is back on track (I can't get the popping sound even when I try!), I feel like I can hold my shoulders back without feeling restricted, my neck and cheek muscles don't hurt, I haven't had a headache even after I have exercised, and I can stand/sit up straight without low back pain or discomfort. That's what has always made me laugh - people telling me to work on my posture but they don't know how impossible it is to hold your shoulders back and sit up straight when you have every muscle in your chest/back/neck pulling you in the other direction! So, my suggestion to some of you, especially those who may have experienced trauma that could have led to whiplash is to look into chiropractic treatment...go to someone with good bedside manner and specializes in whiplash. Chiro work is one of the more affordable services out there too so that's a bonus. And I believe the combo of chiro and massage is the ticket and there are many chiro offices that also offer massage - often both of which is covered by insurance if you choose to file! Best of luck...I feel your pain!